Tantra Can Help You to Clear Your Love Blocks
In this podcast episode I talk about how Tantric dating can help us to clear one of the most common love blocks, which is when we are too focused on physical looks and being too attached to our “type” when looking for a lover.
With many dating apps designed to focus on that first impression of appearance, modern dating culture has become too obsessed about physical looks. And with social media training us to have an attention span of about 8 seconds, online dating has been reduced to making split-second judgements about people based on their profile photo. In the space of 60 seconds you might choose to reject 60 amazing deep beautiful people. That’s 60 potential opportunities for love, immediately discarded and closed off within a minute of your day.
Tantra is about Awareness. With Awareness you can see what is blocking you from deeper love.
Tantra teaches that everyone is a unique expressing of Divine beauty. And that means that eveyone has something deeply loveable about them. But sometimes it is not immediatley apparent, or it may require certain conditions or environment to see and connect with a person’s inner beauty.
In Tantric dating you relax into your own divine beauty and you take the time to see the divine beauty of the other person. You stay open to possibilities. You explore different modes of connection which are not fixated on visual appearance, perhaps through fun and laughter, or through sensual touch, or through sharing moments. You keep in mind that this person who is with you right now in this moment has the potential to be your beloved. Maybe nothing will come of it, or maybe yes, who knows. But you can at least connect in love for this moment right now.
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Sources
Tantric Dating: Bringing Love and Awareness to the Dating Process. 2nd edition 2020. Green Tara Press. Catherine Auman.
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